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Relaxing During Your Session

    • 5 posts
    November 9, 2019 11:41 AM CET

    I have some advice that may help the guys who are new to fisting. I learned this through trial and error, and hopefully it will help. 

    My first attempts at taking my boyfriends fist generally ended in failure. It just hurt too much to continue. Thankfully, my boyfriend was tuned into my feelings, and he helped me to relax so that we could continue. Being tense is never going to help. If you tense up, your sphincter tightens up, and things become much more difficult. If you feel yourself  tensing up, have your partner stop, yet leave his fingers inserted. Then lay your head back, take 4 good deep breaths and feel your body loosen up.  If your body loosens up, so will your sphincter. Don’t be afraid to do this as many times as necessary. 

    If your partner uses rapid stabbing movements, it will probably hurt like hell. Educate him to use slow, deliberate thrusts, it makes a world of difference. Push in, stop, hold it, allow your partner to relax and get used to it then advance some more. It’s not a race, it’s a marathon. 

    I love lube injectors. I use mine copiously to get J-Lube deep into my ass before my boyfriends fingers meet the inner walls of my rectum. We use the lube injectors before and during our sessions, I can’t recommend them enough. 

    We are popper queens - we use Amsterdam multiple times during our sessions. I can’t imaging fisting without them.

    One of my personal fetishes is to wear my high top wrestling style tennis shoes during our sessions. I love to lay back on the bench with my legs in the air, tennis shoes on. Everyone has their little fetishes, and be sure to include them in your fisting sessions. It just makes everything hotter.

    I am an anal PIG. We always start with a buttplug, then varying sizes of dildos, working up to a super thick 9 incher. After that, I like to have a softball or T-Ball bat shoved up there. We always put a condom on the bat to smooth out the scratches, then in it goes. My boyfriend gets off on fucking me with that bat, and I love it! I figure that if I can take a bat, the fist comes next.

    We take our sweet time every time. Never, ever, hurry fisting, it will probably result in nothing but pain and frustration. Slow and easy, lots and lots of lube, patience, a warm-up with big dildos and a patient top will give you a successful outcome. 

    When his hand finally breaks through my sphincter and slides inside, I take a good hit of poppers and my mind nearly leaves my body. It’s a tremendous physical and mental high. One more thing, make frequent eye contact with your partner. Lock your eyes on his and establish a deep mental/metaphysical connection. Its so powerful!!




    This post was edited by Jeff at November 9, 2019 11:44 AM CET
    • 6 posts
    December 3, 2019 5:04 AM CET

    Nicely said and your pics are HOT. Yes he key to a fun pleasurable FF session is to know how and when to relax. Poppers help and work for me every time. Breath and think of how awesome it feels and will feel after your tunnel is explored deeper and deeper. But always remember to breath and relax as you go. Don't be in a rush. It feels to good to rush it. 

    • 5 posts
    December 3, 2019 5:23 AM CET
    Thanks man! The first time we actually fisted one another we were in a hurry. I still regret it, as my ass hurt for a week. Beginners inexperience. You are correct, breathing in and out deeply makes a ton of difference. When I exhale I make a deliberate effort to relax my entire body. And we use lots of J Lube.