I think people use substances to be able to enjoy a fist a little better. taking a fist can take some work for most people. "taking the edge off" can make that a little easier. for me it is a little weed, maybe a beer. that is enough for me. poppers don't do anything at all in terms of making it easier or better, but to each his own. when I think of "chems" i think of meth. that is a whole different thing. I find it dangerous and in fact I had to get away from the whole scene because of it. today I stay away from meth but do like weed as I described.
I would welcome fisters who can play without meth, but who may like to loosen up a bit with other less intense substances.
Heh. Orgasms, the repeating ones, are out of this world ANYWAY! Sure. These things may have a place, butt if you can remember when the last time you did them was, with relative precision, it is too soon to do them again. I would probably like it as well. I know I did different things, at different times through my life, But a dain bramadging car crASSh somewhat.. removed my memories of the pASSt. Because I cannot really remember ithngs well, it is too soo to try playing with them again, anyway.
I must confess that slamming helps my gut with its narrow rings better be able to control. now it's thanks to slam through all rings through almost to stop. a very incomparable feeling. I did not think so to make a 50 years old still an outrageous discovery. now I miss nothing, except hands and arms in me ....
It seems with Meth, that the people doing it are enjoying the drug more than the sex. As though they are having sex in order to do Meth. I have not tried it more than a brief minor puff, so perhaps I am without the proper knowledge to comment. But, I think it is better for me to leave this one to others to explore. Life is hard enough without having a monkey on my back too.
Poppers, weed, wine or beer and it is a great time. And on my own with toys...just a bit of poppers.
I think it is a mistake to conflate the word 'chems' with meth/tina. There are plenty of us who take a little something to, as someone posts above, take the edge off and be able to play for much longer. But not all of us take meth - very few in fact, in my experience. For me and all my play buddies, meth is just a line we have never crossed and never will. There are other and better chems out there for fisting. And, moderation is the key. The golden rule with chems is that you don't need to get as high as a kite; in fact, it's quite the opposite - the smaller the amount, the better the session you'll have.
I'm a no-judgement zone when it comes to any and all sorts of practices around ff and arse play, including chems. But it can be annoying when guys who aren't familiar with their use and how men actually use them to enhance their ff sessions immediately assume that anyone who has "chem friendly" or HNH or PNP on their profile is a crazy lowlife meth addict. Because this is just not the case.
Well, using drugs sets a problem, that one to have to choose between events that do not last (ie. a fist session, even a long one) and events that do last for ever as a stroke, myocardial infarction, or even death … Once sitting in a wheeling chair or laying in a coffin, it is no more time to wonder wether taking drugs to reach a huge orgasm or get a whole arm was worthwhile. Those questions are to be answered before taking risks … On the other hand I do not enjoy to fist someone who is selfish flying far away into his own universe and who is no more interacting with me … Drugs are for me just artificial paradises, mirages, traps, and above all dehumanizing ways.
the use of illicit recreational drugs sets a serious problem of civic responsability : this use creates a commercial demand and this demand sustains the mafias and cartels responsible for abuses, killings, torture, trafficking of organs, trafficking of human beings, networks of prostitution, pedophilia etc ... Those who buy these drugs are complicit in fact and their responsibility is committed in mafia crimes ...